A diagnosis of prostate cancer can change a man's life and the lives of those close to him. These changes can be hard to handle. It is common for a man and his family and friends to have many different and sometimes confusing emotions. Many men find that having good information and support services can make it easier to cope with these changes.
Men living with prostate cancer may worry about keeping their jobs, caring for their families, or continuing daily activities. Concerns about treatments and managing side effects, hospital stays, and medical bills are also common. Doctors, nurses, and other members of the health care team can answer questions about treatment, working, or other activities. Meeting with a social worker, counselor, or member of the clergy can be helpful to those who want to talk about their feelings or discuss their concerns. Often, a social worker can suggest resources for financial aid, transportation, home care, or emotional support.
It is also natural for a man and his partner to be concerned about the effects of prostate cancer and its treatment on their sexual relationship. They may want to talk with the doctor about possible side effects and whether these are likely to be temporary or permanent. Whatever the outlook, it is usually helpful for a couple to talk about their concerns and help each other find ways to be intimate during and after treatment. For some couples, it helps to talk with a sex counselor.
Friends and relatives can be supportive and can play an important role. Also, some men find it helps to discuss their concerns with others who have cancer. In support groups, men get together to share what they have learned about coping with the disease and the effects of treatment. Men may want to talk with a member of their health care team about finding a support group. Groups may offer support in person, over the telephone, or on the Internet.
The Cancer Information Service can provide information to help men and their families locate programs, services, and publications
