A diagnosis of breast cancer can change a woman's life and the lives of those close to her. These changes can be hard to handle. It is common for the woman and her family and friends to have many different and sometimes confusing emotions. Many women find that having good information and support services can make it easier to cope.
People living with cancer may worry about caring for their families, keeping their jobs, or continuing daily activities. Concerns about tests, treatments, hospital stays, and medical bills are also common. The health care provider can answer questions about treatment, working, or other activities. Meeting with a social worker, counselor, or member of the clergy can be helpful to those who want to talk about their feelings or discuss their concerns. Often, a social worker can suggest resources for help with recovery, emotional support, financial aid, transportation, or home care.
Friends and relatives can be very supportive. Also, many women find it helps to discuss their concerns with others who have cancer. Women with breast cancer often get together in support groups, where they can share what they have learned about coping with their disease and the effects of their treatment. It is important to keep in mind, however, that each woman is different. Ways that one woman deals with cancer may not be right for another. A woman may want to ask her health care provider about advice she receives from other breast cancer survivors.
Several organizations offer special programs for women with breast cancer. Trained volunteers, who have had breast cancer themselves, may talk with or visit women with breast cancer, provide information, and lend emotional support. They often share their experiences with breast cancer treatment, rehabilitation, and breast reconstruction.
Sometimes women who have had breast cancer are afraid that changes to their body will affect not only how they look but also how other people feel about them. They may be concerned that breast cancer and its treatment will affect their sexual relationships. Many couples find it helps to talk about their concerns. Some find that counseling or a couples' support group can be helpful.
The Cancer Information Service (1-800-4-CANCER) can provide printed materials on coping with cancer, as well as information to help women with breast cancer and their families locate programs, services, and publications.
